Being Relatable

When you have bits of spinach or something stuck in between the gaps of your teeth or when your fly is somehow undone, do some kind soul take you aside and gently tell you about it?

Or do they leave you alone and snigger behind your back?

If they do the latter, you probably lack likeability.

It’s important to have emotional connection with others.

Emotionally attractive people are the ones going places.

Long after people forget what you have done, they will remember how you made them feel.

You may have the talent, the IQ and the tenacity but without the ability to evoke positive emotions in others, you will only be just a snake in the garden, nothing more.

Because they can’t relate to you people will resent you and find you obnoxious and will avoid you whenever possible.

Ultimately, you’ll end up biting yourself.

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