This is my web log, (that’s what “blog” means right?) and not a public forum for discussion. That’s one reason why I don’t entertain comments. I mean, if you feel so insecure about yourself or need to defend your stupid actions to the extent that you have to write your own blog post to rebut me, that’s your own fucking business. I don’t care two hoots about your personal problems and any bullshit from you will just flow off me like water off a duck’s back. However, close friends who follow my rants here have responded to my two posts on resentment and one of them told me:
“I read your last two posts with great personal interest as I too have a little skin in that game.
“I totally agree that we all need to chill a bit more. And be more forgiving of one another; friends, family, and even strangers.
“I too have had more than my fair share of people walk out of my life. Many – like you – without having said a word. I have no respect for someone who doesn’t have the balls to just tell me face to face (or even by email) to fuck off.
“Too me it’s so cowardly to abandon a supposed friend without so much as a word. As for me, I hope their resentment eats a big fucking hole in their belly.
“That might be cruel but that’s how I feel about cowards.
“My feelings are, if I’ve done something to offend you, you have two and only two respectful choices. You can chose to ignore what I did, knowing that I would never deliberately do anything to offend you as a friend, family member, or stranger. Or two, if you are mature and still convinced that I did something deliberate to hurt you, then you need to come quietly as a man and call me out on my offense and give me a chance to apologize.”
Another friend read my post on being rear-ended and emailed me:
“Read your post…and feel very outraged by those people.
“Shameless people…including Singaporeans and even a government agency I know have stooped to this level to claim credit or write falsehoods as history.”