Gone Fishing – The Power of Ignoring

The psychological impact of social exclusion is greater than we thought.

In the vast realm of psychological research, the consequences of feeling ignored or shunned have come to light. Fascinatingly, studies have revealed that social exclusion elicits a pain akin to physical distress, activating a specific brain region associated with emotional agony. We need to delve deeper to explores the profound and lasting effects of ostracism on individuals.

Numerous researchers have demonstrated that even brief episodes of ostracism can leave a lasting impact on emotions, thereby influencing subsequent behavior. The dorsal anterior cingulate cortex, a region associated with processing the emotional aspects of physical pain, is implicated in the experience of social exclusion. Remarkably, this finding suggests that the pain of being ignored or shunned is not merely metaphorical, but deeply ingrained within our neural circuitry.

Regardless of one’s personality type, the silent treatment can have profound and enduring effects on individuals. Feelings of distress stemming from social exclusion can lead to a range of consequences, such as decreased self-esteem, heightened aggression, and even a greater susceptibility to mental health issues. This highlights the importance of acknowledging the psychological impact of ignoring others and prompts us to reevaluate our own behaviors and treatment of those around us.

Humans are inherently social beings, relying on connection and acceptance for their well-being. By ignoring or shunning someone, we tap into a fundamental vulnerability, inflicting emotional pain that mirrors physical suffering and altering the individual’s perception of themselves and others.

Psychological research has illuminated the deep-seated consequences of social exclusion, revealing that the act of ignoring others can cause profound distress. Recognizing the power of inclusion and the potential harm of exclusion empowers us to either cultivate empathy and kindness, or inflict pain and suffering.

The Harvard Study of Adult Development found that having deep relationships was key in people being happy. Deny people that and they wilt.

There you have it, something to weaponize without having to do anything.

A real example: A family in our clan gives the haughty impression that theirs is the only family with the nous to deal with the world; I find these losers most annoying, so – abracadabra, pfft! – they are banished from my world, canceled, blocked and rendered persona non grata. In fact, I considered them dead.

Easy peasy!

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